When you're ON THE SAME page with your husband about your stepfamily life
When there is no longer an unspoken turf war with his ex-wife
When your day doesn't get hijacked by the latest stepfamily saga
When your thoughts aren't consumed by co-parenting stressors or issues that are absolutely outside of your control
When you're confident in your relationship with your husband, step-children and even his ex
When you're not blindsided by conflict about tedious issues such as pick-up, drop-off, medical appointments and the holiday schedule
When your relationship with his ex-wife doesn't cause you stress and anxiety
When you can attend a joint function for the kids feeling confident and worry free (even if you don't even speak)
"Wow Jamie, that all sounds great. But our stepfamily situation is very high conflict. There is no way that can happen for us"
Seriously, it's the truth! As much as an old fashioned vent session can feel good in the moment, it's not going to change A THING! If YOU want change... YOU'RE going to have to do the work!
"Since I wrapped up the inaugural project back in June, I’ve been in SUCH a better place with myself, my boyfriend, my stepson and even HIS MOM! Never would I have thought prior [this. program] that I would be able to think this clearly about our blended family situation. I frequently catch myself thinking in my head, “what would Jamie tell me to do in this situation?!?”... Definitely worth the investment”"
"“The KICK-ASS STEPMOM Project is like having your own personal tribe of women that just GET YOU. It helped me tremendously to identify and separate my concerns about my blended family into categories of things I can control, things I cannot, things that truly matter, and things that just don’t. I silenced a lot of worries in my head, and find myself saying “Eh, that’s life!”, a lot more these days. Jamie helps us all to look at our situations from a birds eye point of view, and helps us to direct our feelings in a positive direction... I fell more in love with my husband, my stepdaughter, and gained a great group of new friendships along the way!”"
"This project was such a great experience! I’m so happy I found this wonderful community of women who are going through the same things as me. I sometimes feel I need a handbook on life and a handbook on being a stepmom...and now I have one. We don’t have to be alone or feel like we have no one to turn to for support. Here is the support we need!"
"This group definitely makes you realize that although the world can be big and lonely, you’re really not alone... having the ability to reach out to someone WHO GETS IT is what I needed more than anything…But you have to be open to change and doing things you probably don’t naturally want to do... Jamie provides a great resource to be able to go back and reference when you’re starting to feel like you’re losing your mind again and doesn’t leave you hanging. She’s very available, approachable and relatable."
Course content that you can complete at a PACE that works for YOU, and can return to again and again. No timeline, no deadlines. Do it over the course of a couple months or binge through it in a weekend. YOU DO YOU GIRL!
75+ page ebook full of tips, strategies, worksheets and real life stepmom lessons to support YOU in designing a stepfamily life that YOU feel in control of
with 11+ videos full of course content that will resonate with ALL stepmom, regardless of their stepfamily dynamic.
Personalized support and feedback in our Facebook Community, exclusive to those enrolled in The KICK-ASS Stepmom Project. This is not your typical Stepmom Facebook Group! Share advice, tips, strategies and find your online stepmom tribe!
"I honestly don't know where I'd be without your program. It made all the difference in my life!"
"LOVE the KICK-ASS Stepmom Project. I highly recommend it. There's not a day goes by that I don't implement something. "
"This program gave me the tools to control what I can control, and let go of things I can't. I'm a happier person, wife and stepmom. I highly recommend this program."
"This program has literally changed my life. I'd do it again and again."
"The positive vibes and no bitching & complaining was just amazing. The KICK-ASS Stepmom Project is focused on taking control of your stepmom life and provides you with the tools to do so."
"This course has helped immensely!! ... there has been a big family shift in our household. Identifying our stressors was the key is seeing our family as a whole and what we can change”"
Three things you need to do to set the foundation for stepfamily success
How to prevent stepfamily drama from consuming your thoughts
How to identify and come to terms with your Stepfamily Stressors
How to have a healthy relationship with his ex-wife
(even if she doesn't want one)
How to set boundaries without being seen as the "evil-stepmom"
How to manage your relationship with your step-kids
How to stop sweating the small stuff
How to prevent stepfamily stressors from hijacking your day
Why I think forgiveness is bullsh*t when it comes to most Stepfamily Stressors ... and what I think you should do instead
Why your Stepfamily is different than a "first family"
How to get on the same page as your husband about all things stepfamily life
When & how to disengage
How to be proactive NOT reactive with your stepfamily stressors
How to define your role and find your unique place in your family
and much more...
that my hands would literally shake. I'd spend my days consumed by the latest issue, and my "to do" lists would go untouched.
I'd have a pit in my stomach and couldn't think about anything else. I felt like I had no control over my life...
I was giving outside factors too much control over my happiness...
I want to show you exactly what I did!.
Invest in yourself, your marriage and your family today!